Ready to find relief from past trauma and show up better in relationships?
You’re connecting the dots from current relationship struggles to past wounds so you can create lasting change in your confidence and relationships.
Do you ever lay in bed at night and wonder...
Do you ever lay in bed at night and wonder...
Will I ever find the relationship I’m looking for?
Why can’t I open up and be vulnerable?
Why do all my relationships fail?
Is there something wrong with me?
You know a satisfying relationship is possible. But right now, you can’t help but feel like there’s just something wrong with you.
Imagine being able to navigate your emotions with ease and show up confident in relationships.
No more feeling stuck or blocked from the connection you crave.
Stop what you’re doing and ask yourself:
How would your life change if you could control your emotions and show up better in relationships?
Because right now, you’re not confident in your ability to create the relationship you crave. You feel stuck and tired of being stuck.
When you think about what it would feel like to finally not feel so triggered in relationships, anxious, or closed off, you feel excited. But right now, that feels so far away.
You know it’s possible to be calm and confident, manage your emotions, communicate effectively, and create the relationship of your dreams. But how do you get there?
Lately, it’s becoming clearer than ever that while your partner is part of the problem, you have some healing work to do too.
When you’re honest with yourself, you know the “right” things to do in your relationship, but knowing isn’t enough - you keep repeating old patterns.
When you see the people around you happy and confident in relationships, you know it’s your time to do the deeper work that’s been hindering you from the connection you crave.
You’ve reached the point where you KNOW healing is possible. And there’s no better time than now.
You’ve been thinking, “there’s got to be a better way!”
Traditional approaches to relationship issues focus only on the present or the future and miss out on addressing the root of your relationship issues - your past wounds.
Good news: You’re right.
Your past impacts your present and future and when you address old wounds, you create lasting change for the present and future!
What you’ve tried before?
They don’t address the connection between your past wounds and your present conflicts. That’s why in this course, you’ll be addressing past pain as well as the present issues you face.
The secret to happiness is...
The secret to happiness is...
Having good relationships
Studies show the number one factor in determining how happy you are is how good your relationships are. You know that showing up better in relationships is key to feeling fulfilled and you’re ready to address the blocks that keep you stuck.
I’m Elaine, here’s some of my story…
There have been times where I’ve lost my cool on my partner and blamed them for all of the issues in the relationship. I’ve been on the roller coaster of back-and-forth relationships chasing after guys who weren’t into me. I’ve found myself burnout because I was using perfectionism and performance to find a sense of confidence.
Healing my trauma helped me to stop these patterns and learn how to truly find self-confidence and inner peace. Understanding my childhood experiences from an adult perspective helped me to feel less ashamed for struggles with low self-worth and failed relationships. I learned what my triggers are and how to manage them.
Yes, I’m a trauma therapist and have studied relationships for years. AND I’m gonna be real with you, I still mess up sometimes. But, I have a good relationship because I now know what to do when I mess up.
And that’s what I want to teach you in this course so that you also can get unstuck from the pain of your past!
I’ve worked with hundreds of clients who learned to unwind the pain of their past in order to transform how they show up in relationships.
I know what it’s like to feel stuck in unsuccessful relationships and wonder, “Am I just broken inside?” When you learn that your patterns in relationships and feelings about yourself aren’t your fault but are things you learned from your past, you can pave a new path forward.
Have we met yet?
Elaine Evans, MS, LPC-S, EMDR-C
Hi! I’m Elaine. I help people just like you, ready to heal old wounds to feel more confident and calm in the present. As a trauma-informed therapist, certified in EMDR, trained yoga instructor and college professor I am equipped to help you learn what you need to know as well as guide you through how to do it in a holistic way that engages the mind and body.
While I am a therapist, I am not your therapist. This course is psychoeducational and not intended to be a replacement for therapy. Know that by taking this course, that doesn’t make you a client of my practice. I’m happy to connect you with a therapist if you need one!
Introducing: Heal Your Trauma to Improve Your Relationships
An 8-module roadmap to healing old wounds to show up better in relationships.
Check out what’s inside the course
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Learn how to identify when you’re triggered so that you can stop a blow up before it happens.
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Learn how trauma impacts your emotions, thoughts, and feelings so that you can control your thoughts and feelings with more ease.
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Learn how to heal trauma from a well-rounded approach that addresses your negative thoughts and feelings so that you don’t get stuck in old patterns again.
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Learn how to be a safe partner, increase trust, and be more open. Go deeper in your relationships and feel closer to your partner. Learn how to ask for and get the love you want, in the way you want it.
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Learn effective communication skills to tackle the tough topics so that your relationship will grow stronger rather than be torn apart by differences. Learn how to apologize effectively because even when you heal your trauma, you’re bound to mess up but it doesn’t need to ruin your relationship.
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Learn how to stick to your boundaries and communicate them so that your relationships continue to thrive after trauma healing.
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Learn practical tips for taking your relationship to the next level with exercises for engaging in vulnerability and aligning on goals for intimacy.
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Learn how to keep good momentum going because change isn’t an overnight process and takes continued effort.
Majo Birdsall, Trauma Therapist @majobirdsalltherapy
"You covered all the bases and provided a complete picture by showing how trauma affects every part of people's lives, but I appreciated how you didn't just stop there. You also gave practical resources and easy techniques to begin their healing journey."
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DOORS CLOSE THURSDAY, 5/9!
DOORS CLOSE THURSDAY, 5/9!
Are You Ready to Heal?
You could… keep blaming relationship issues on your partner, waiting around for them to finally change.
But… you’re ready for change now and you know you have a role in this too.
You could…keep getting into new relationships, reading books, listening to podcasts, and focusing on the future by manifesting your perfect soulmate.
But…that doesn’t address the root emotional issues that fuel your anxiety and insecurity, ultimately causing you to revert back to old unhealthy patterns.
You could… do it alone and continue spinning your wheels, blaming yourself for not trying harder or doing better.
But… you know that only makes you sink deeper.
You could… write off your past pain as not “significant” enough to warrant labeling it as trauma.
But… that still leaves you frustrated and clueless as to how to make lasting change in your relationships.
But… you’re ready to find some answers NOW and you know that it can take a while to find the right therapist who gets you and will help you.
You could… pay less for a therapy session, hoping the provider clues in to your specific challenges right out the gate.
For roughly the cost of 2 therapy sessions, this course gives you instant access to everything you need to heal from your past traumas and improve your relationship now.
In this course, you get to take charge of your relationships by learning how to navigate the deep roots of pain that keep you stuck.
“I have recently started therapy. It became increasingly clear how much trauma I have been endured in childhood. As a result, I am trying my best to learn more alongside weekly therapy (which seems too slow at ~45 mins/ week).
After taking this course, I feel more prepared than ever! I believe everyone should have this kind of education on emotions, relationships, navigating past events that are reflected in current behavior. In the course I felt emotional. Lots of "aha" moments. Validated.”
-Previous Course Student
Everything included:
8 self-paced learning modules
15 handouts for practical application
Coping skills for navigating hard topics
Lifetime access
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Two payments of $175
Option Two: Pay Monthly
Today’s Price: $175 today followed by
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One Time Payment
$300
Option One: Best Value
Today’s Price: One payment of $300
Save $50 by paying in full
DOORS CLOSE THURSDAY, 5/9!
DOORS CLOSE THURSDAY, 5/9!
In this course, you get to take charge of your relationships by learning how to navigate the deep roots of pain that keep you stuck.
Kelly McKenna, Anxiety Therapist @sitwithkelly
“As a therapist, I’ve seen firsthand the impact childhood trauma can have on your adult relationships. Elaine’s program tackles this head-on, equipping you with practical tools to heal your own trauma and have relationships that feel fulfilling and calm. It’s a comprehensive program offering deep understanding and actionable strategies – a true gift for anyone wanting to break the cycle and show up differently in their relationships!”
Get it before it closes!
Enrollment is only open until Thursday, April 9th!
If you’re looking for a quick fix to get your partner to change so that you’ll finally be happy, this simply isn’t for you.
But if you’re looking for something that helps you to make the changes within you that you know are holding you back, this is the course for you!
This course is for you if:
You are struggling to navigate conflict in relationships well
You feel insecure more often than not
You have a pattern of shutting down in relationships
You think your childhood experiences could have something to do with it, but you’re not sure
You want real exercises to implement lasting change
“Your approach is gentle, so incredibly informative and you actually give concrete and manageable ways in which to heal your trauma.”
-Majo Birdsall, Trauma Therapist @majobirdsalltherapy
“The biggest transformation I’ve seen since taking the course is my self confidence and my ability to take accountability for my perspective and change my negative self limiting beliefs. I have never completed a course feeling like I have all the information necessary to heal, until now!”
-Sheridan, Previous Course Student
FAQs
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This course is an amazing start to healing your trauma. It’s deep work that starts with awareness. In this course, you’ll work on the deep wounds that are holding you back and create new patterns.
If you’d like to work with a therapist during or after this course, I’m happy to make a recommendation.
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The course includes 7 hours of video content on topics related to trauma healing and relationships, as well as 15 practical exercises to expand upon the learning. You get to choose how deep you want to go, but you always have access to the course to come back to it when you need a refresher.
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As taught in the first module of the course, your brain uses past experiences to inform how you interpret the present and make predictions about the future. It’s impossible to only be addressing a current situation from the view of the present. So, in the course you’ll learn how your trauma may actually have an impact on your present issues. You’ll also get practical here-and-now, what-to-do-about-it guidance for navigating topics like conflict, boundaries, sex, and more!
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I’m so glad you’re here! This is an excellent course to take to help you make the best next choice in relationships. You can use the content in the course to gain insight on where past relationships went wrong and how to show up as your best self the next time around!
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Not sure if this is for you? I’m happy to talk through it. Feel free to send me a DM Instagram @thirdplacetherapy or email me at elaine@thirdplacetherapy.com
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Your feedback is valued and your experience matters to me. Based on feedback, I add and adapt things to the course to continually improve it - with lifetime access, you’ll benefit from any additions or improvements made. You can reach out to me at elaine@thirdplacetherapy.com. I do not offer refunds for the course once purchased.
Choose Your Plan
One Time Payment
$300
Option One: Best Value
Today’s Price: One payment of $300
Save $50 by paying in full
Two Monthly Payments
Two payments of $175
Option Two: Pay Monthly
Today’s Price: $175 today followed by
1 payment of $175